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Hi Maxim, I would love to be included as someone doing The Preparation. I’m currently in The Farmer cycle in lovely New Zealand - https://open.substack.com/pub/nicw

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Hi there Maxim, I'm a Phyle member. Nick Hughes.

I've been following your progress as and when your Dad talks about you, which is quite often, it occurred to me to follow you in person now that you have grown into a young man.

In the nineteenth century and earlier, manhood was celebrated at 25 years of age. I quite like that. Most men have worked out their plan etc by the age of 25. (Not me.)

In England the 'coming of age' now seems to be 18, I find that way too early for the children that are growing up in this time.

In NZ it was 21 when I was growing up. Better than 18 but still too early.

I have a lovely step-son, Renaldas, he is 26 now and I have extended his coming of age until he is 35. He's a slow burner... but he'll get there.

Anyway I think what your Dad and Doug designed for you is really magical and my little fella, Colter is 11 years of age and I do not see him following in my footsteps on a path to University. Your Dad and Doug's views mirror my own.

Sadly University has become an expensive way to develop a persons' regurgitation skills. 3 or 4 years later the student will come out with an enormous mill stone of debt around their neck and none of the experience or confidence that you have.

I'm thinking of buying my own copy of 'The Preparation' and reading it to Colter, and giving him homework on it.

Looking forward to hearing more of your doings and activities, all the best Maxim.

Nick Hughes

Kia Kaha

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